I’m a fan of any celebration of love, so I’m a natural lover of Valentine’s Day. Sure, I adore flowers and always welcome romantic dinners, but there are many ways to celebrate love that don’t involve chocolates, overpriced meals or more “stuff” to fill the house with. My favourite moments cost very little and are ultimately more meaningful in the long-term.  Instead of going the typical consumer route, why not try out one (or all) of these simple and free gifts this year for your partner and/or your kids.

 

1. Be Present

Guaranteed to be the best free gift you can give to your partner (and/or kids.) Put your smartphone/computer/tablets away for a solid chunk of time and let them have your full and undivided attention. Spend less time talking and more time truly listening.

 

2. Write a love letter

There are many things we appreciate and love about our partners and our kids that they might not hear us say on a daily basis. Sitting down to physically write our expressions of love for someone benefits not only the one receiving the letter, but makes the person writing it feel good also.

 

3. Get Outside and Be Active Together

Plan a family activity (or couples activity) outdoors. Being active as a family or with your partner is a wonderful way to spend time together away from the usual stressors of household chores/to-do lists. Time in nature is also a proven mood-booster.

 

4. Make Your Favourite Meal Together

Whether you’re planning a candlelit dinner with your partner after the kids are in bed, or a family celebration, conversation over tasty food is always a good way to connect with each other. Pick your favourite dishes and chef up a yummy meal that you can savour together. (And leave the dishes for later.)

 

5. Extra Hugs and cuddles

Whether we’re five or fifty-five, the importance of touch and physical intimacy is undeniable. Some of us are natural huggers and others have to make a concerted effort to increase our physical contact. Regardless of your nature, by ensuring lots of hugs and cuddles this Valentines Day, you’re bound to spread a whole lot of extra love. And who can deny that love is a good thing?